I was the biggest soft tip hater there ever was. I came from an area where steel tip leagues were dominate. In fact, I had never really played soft tip at all, but I knew I hated it. I used to say all the same cliche things I still hear all the time. I mostly said things about the size of the targets. Who couldn't hit those things? I never thought of the guy I was playing that could hit the huge targets just as well.
I then moved to an area that had soft tip only. I had 2 choices. Quit darts or suck it up and play. I choose the ladder. Glad I did. After several months learning curve I started to get pretty good. At first it was frustrating because i knew I was a better player then the people beating me. I just wasn't used to players firing 6.0+ mpr against me. Strategy had to change a bit.
I had just got back from the NAODT in Vegas 2001 and I thought that was a huge tournament. Plenty of stars from the UK were there. A month later my ex gf took me to the NY State Championships soft tip tourney in Waterloo. I was feeling pretty good and ready to kick some butt. When I walked in the place i was overwhelmed at how big it was. Massive!!! To make a long story short, I had my butt handed to me. Just a 1/2 year earlier I won a steel tip state championship, along with the doubles and mixed trips that same weekend. How could I possibly get beat so bad in softtip??? I was determined to do better once I figured out how to play at a high level.
A few months later I went to a Bullshooter regional and things started to click. Won the men's doubles, men's singles, mixed dubs, and took 2nd in trips. Walked out of there with over $1k in my pocket. I was hooked. I started to hit every soft tip event I could. The money was way better then any steel tip tourney I've been to.
The next year at states I took 4th in singles, won the pro doubles, won both pro mixed doubles, and won the trips. My gf also won the Arachnid Galaxy that same weekend. They also gave away a Harley that weekend. When is the last time you seen that at a steel tip event?
Going back and forth from steel to soft has made me a WAY better player then I ever was. There is a lot more constant pressure in soft tip. Open up with a 9 mark in cricket playing steel tip and you can at least take a deep breath and relax a bit. Do the same thing in soft tip and you can't even blink. When top level players are throwing 6.0+ mpr or better you need to make every dart count. As seen this weekend at Dartslive, top level steel tip players were handed their walking ticket by soft tip players.
Game is no joke at top levels.
I imagine it would be very hard for anyone in the UK and a few other places to take soft tip seriously. Steel tip is ingrained in your culture. Dart players are awarded MBE's and are seen as celebrity's. You can play in any sort of steel tip league you want and even watch it all the time on the tele. Stuff like that doesn't exist AT ALL in the states. We take what we can get.
To me it doesn't matter what game I play. Darts is darts when I'm on the oche. I could move back to Maine and hardly miss soft tip at all. Or I could stay here in NY and continue to love it. As long as I'm able to continue playing at a high level is all that matters.